What does it cost to be generous?

I liked teaching art classes because it allowed me to share the knowledge and skill that I have in abundance with others. It allowed me to be generous.

Generosity comes from a human desire to help. Especially to help those that you can see need your help.

Is it generosity that prompts you to put an extra $10 bill into the collection basket as it passes you? Or the hope of redemption?

Is generosity simply camouflaged selfishness? Do you expect a payoff the next day, week, or years from now?

Do you do it because your cup overflows and you can afford to share? Because the risk is low?

Is generosity altruistic?

Is the warm feeling in your stomach, feeling good about yourself as a human being, is that feeling the payoff you count on? What if your generosity falls on flat barren land and you don’t see any results or hear any “thank you”s? What then?

For me, the most precious resources are time and attention, and the ultimate act of generosity is giving my time and undivided attention to another human.

What about you?

In this “season of giving,” what currency do you trade for the warm feeling of having done something generous? Is it money? Time? Kind words? Professional advice?

What does it cost to be generous?